Coping With Disaster: Tips for College Students For many college students, a disaster can mark the first major catastrophe they have ever experienced. In the aftermath of a disaster, students may feel uncertain about a future they had just begun to carefully map out. Some may have suffered the loss of parents, relatives or friends. Others may wonder how the disaster will involve them. Nobody is unaffected. Whether you have been directly or indirectly impacted, it is important to know that each person reacts differently to disaster, and it is normal and expected to experience a range of responses. Emotional responses can appear immediately or sometimes develop months later. Those students who live away from home may have a more difficult time coping without the reassurance of family nearby. But understanding what youıre feeling and taking positive steps to address those feelings can help you cope. Below is a list of common responses to be aware of, and the next page offers practical tips on how to deal with your reactions and a list of resources. Remember that things may never be quite the same, but they will get better, and you will feel better. Some Common Responses to Disaster and Its Consequences: Disbelief and shock Fear and anxiety about the future Disorientation; difficulty making decisions or concentrating Inability to focus on schoolwork and extracurricular activities Apathy and emotional numbing Irritability and anger Extreme mood swings Sadness and depression Feelings of powerlessness Extreme changes in eating patterns; loss of appetite or overeating Crying for "no apparent reason" Headaches and stomach problems Difficulty sleeping Excessive use of alcohol and drugs Most of these reactions will decrease as time passes and you begin to resume your daily activities. Because everyone experiences stress differently, donıt compare your progress with other peopleıs or judge their reactions and emotions. TIPS FOR COPING AND RETURNING TO DAILY LIVES Talk about it and encourage others to share their perspectives. Sharing your feelings with friends, professors, classmates and family will help you work through what happened. Talking with others will relieve stress and help you realize that other people have similar feelings. Take care of yourself. Get plenty of rest and exercise. Do things that you find relaxing and soothing. Remember to eat nutritious foods. Limit your exposure to media reports and images of the tragedy. Avoid excessive drinking and risk-taking activities. As soon as you feel comfortable, go back to usual routines. Stay connected to friends and family. Make plans to visit family or other people who can offer reassurance. If you canıt be with them in person, increase your contact through phone calls and e-mails. Do something positive that will help you gain a greater sense of control (for example, give blood, take a first aid class, or donate food or clothing). Get involved with campus activities planned in response to the disaster, such as a candlelight vigil, benefit, discussion group or special lecture. Ask for help if you feel overwhelmed by lingering thoughts about the disaster‹itıs not a sign of weakness. Talk with a trusted friend, family member or faith leader. Use on-campus resources such as the college counseling center and health center. If you have strong feelings that wonıt go away or if you are troubled for longer than four to six weeks, you may want to seek professional help. Being unable to manage your responses to the disaster and resume your regular activities may be symptoms of depression, anxiety or post-traumatic stress disorder. People who have existing mental health problems and those who have survived past trauma may also want to check in with a mental health care professional. Help is available; you donıt have to deal with this alone. For additional information, visit the following Web sites: National Mental Health Association (www.nmha.org) American College Counseling Association (www.collegecounseling.org) American College Health Association (www.acha.org) American College Personnel Association (www.acpa.nche.edu) American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (www.afsp.org) Anxiety Disorders Association of America (www.adaa.org) Eating Disorders Awareness and Prevention, Inc. (www.edap.org) National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information (www.health.org) National Institute of Mental Health (www.nimh.nih.gov) National Panhellenic Conference (www.npcwomen.org) The BACCHUS and GAMMA Peer Education Network (www.bacchusgamma.org) ( Information courtesy of the National Mental Health Association. Copyright 2001.) Return